In a recent social media outburst, renowned Ghanaian actress Lydia Forson expressed her disappointment and frustration with pundit Vida Adutwumwaa for her commentary on singer Efya’s alleged drug use. In a series of tweets, Forson lashed out at Adutwumwaa and others who pass judgment on individuals’ lives without considering the potential repercussions. She expressed her disbelief at the audacity some people have to form strong opinions about others’ personal lives, particularly matters as sensitive as substance abuse allegations.
The vim you people have to sit and have such strong opinions over people’s lives is beyond me.
The carelessness, lack of emotional intelligence and the crass with which you speak on people says a lot more about you, than them.
Shame on you. https://t.co/Fvor0613tE
— miss forson (@lydiaforson) August 21, 2023
Forson’s criticism underscored the importance of emotional intelligence and sensitivity when discussing personal matters of public figures. Her reaction highlights the fact that such commentary not only reflects poorly on the individuals making the comments but also contributes to a culture of shaming and judgment.
The actress’s words, “The vim you people have to sit and have such strong opinions over people’s lives is beyond me,” resonated with some on social media who shared her sentiment while others maintain that Vida is only trying to call out the supposed weaknesses of a public figure so she can do better.
See I’m tired of this nonsense
This lady must be sued first!
This is arrant nonsense
— Dapper Queen Of Kings (@IvyEnyonam_) August 21, 2023
Forson further emphasized that the way people talk about others can reveal more about their own character than the person they are discussing. She called out the “carelessness” and “crass” nature of Adutwumwaa’s commentary, suggesting that it reflects a lack of empathy and consideration for the potential impact of such statements on the individuals involved.
The incident has sparked a larger conversation about the responsibility that comes with being a public figure, whether it’s a celebrity, commentator, or pundit. While public figures often attract attention and scrutiny, many argue that discussing sensitive personal matters without evidence or consideration can lead to damaging consequences, both for the individuals involved and for society as a whole.
I don't subscribe to them talking about "people" anyhow, but wait o, come to think of it, who are those people? Are they not public figures? Who are the ones too talking about them? Are they not pundits? Who do you want pundits to talk about if not you guys, public figures?
— Same Guy 🇬🇭 🇬🇧 (@CYAmponsah) August 21, 2023
In a world where social media enables instantaneous sharing of opinions, it’s crucial to consider the potential impact of one’s words before sharing them publicly. Forson’s passionate response serves as a reminder that the power of words can’t be underestimated, and those who choose to express their opinions publicly must do so responsibly and empathetically.
