Ghanaian singer iOna Reine has stirred controversy after urging married women to rethink traditional gender roles in relationships, a message that has triggered widespread debate on social media.

The singer, known in private life as Mercy Onuawonto Sam, argued that the long-standing expectation for women to remain at home while men solely provide financially should be reconsidered.

In a Facebook post that has since gone viral, she encouraged women to prioritise personal development through education, skills acquisition and self-improvement, describing it as a pathway to becoming “high value” individuals.

According to her, building personal worth increases the likelihood of receiving better treatment in relationships.

She also cautioned women against over-dependence on their partners, stressing that relationships can end unexpectedly or be disrupted by life-changing events such as death or other unforeseen circumstances.

“Dear ladies, there is a way this world works, value is everything in this realm, add premium value to yourself and you will attract the same from the opposite side. High value woman equals high value treatment, shalom.

“Baby stay home and take care of the kids, I will work and take care of us. Never try am ooooo. Apart from the fact that the relationship may end, there is death and unfortunate situations that can turn your life around,” the post read.

Her comments have reignited conversations about marriage expectations, independence, and financial security among women.